"He's so shy, he never talks to anyone." "She always clams up around new people." Maybe when you were growing up you were protected from conversation because you were shy. Perhaps you were the little girl in the beauty shop next to me recently, getting her hair cut.
The girl of about 6 years old obviously wasn't in the mood to talk. Her mom says, "Oh she is just shy. She is really good at the silent treatment." And the hairdresser says, "I feel really sorry for the husband she will have".

And the little girl sits there taking it all in. She is wondering why anyone would feel sorry for her husband. And since there are at least three people staring at her, this becomes an emotional memory.

As an adult, you might wonder why you are not as social as you like to be. Why do you blush when you are around other people? What makes you become insecure and scared when others are having a conversation? Why do you clam up when you really want to speak your mind?

If you repeatedly heard your mother or father or teacher saying "She is just shy, she won't talk to anybody" how on earth are you going to start opening up and feeling comfortable around people?

We learn who we are and how to act when we are very little. The things that are stated and then REPEATEDLY hammered into your tiny little very receptive brain have tremendous power. A young brain that is like a sponge ready to soak up every word and idea and make it into a belief, takes these words and says "hmmm, I guess I am shy". Since mom seems to be the authority around here, she must be right. And since I have heard this no less than 10,456 times and she always says it when someone tries to start a conversation with me, I will simply shut the h3ll up". Although the child probably doesn't say h-e-double hockey sticks.

(I am laughing now, because I actually had an adult customer call me who was not able to say he11 so she said h-e-double hockey sticks)

Anyway, the thing is, we become what we are told to become.
What is your problem? Pick as many as apply.

I am painfully shy
I blush around people
Stammering expert, that's me
Can't think of an intelligent thought around others
Bad at eye contact- please don't look at me
My bad posture says it all- I'd rather be dead than around all these people
Never think of a funny line until way too late
Intimidated by anyone who is confident
I won't go out of the house
On a date, I say the stupidest things
I put myself down, talk myself into feeling useless

When you think about these things, do you start to recall the comments you grew up with? Do the faces of any of your teachers come to mind? I know I have a few that pop into my head instantly. If I can find Mrs. Fast from 3 rd grade I am going to give her a piece of my mind.

First thing- stop reinforcing shyness in your kids. If you are dealing with a shy child, start saying, "it is easy to talk to people, it will be fun for you to ask them questions." Let your shy kids answer questions when asked, rather than jumping in and answering for them or stating that they are too shy to answer.

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Yes, you do! You can't wait to get that phone in your hand and call people who have no idea who you are. You want them to give you money for things.

Am I right or what?

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This really works. I would not kid you about such an important thing. If you don't believe me, I will call you tonight… about dinner time…

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Dear Wendi,

Out if economic necessity, I became a part time entrepreneur, selling business to business services as a virtual assistant. My coach encouraged me to start cold calling businesses. Well, my self esteem was not very high at all and I was terrified of picking up that phone.
I hadn't given up my "day job" yet, so I had a half hour during the work day to make calls. I was doing real good to make 3 calls a day, on those days that I worked up the nerve to call at all.
I bought Wendi's cold calling CD. I only played it three times, as I was drifting off to sleep (by the way, I had been having trouble sleeping, too; but when I listen to the CD, I am out like a light!) After only listening for three nights, 1 made 11 calls in a half hour!
Thanks, Wendi! I'll be coming back to your sight to see what else you have that will help me!
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PS- did you know that adding a PS at the bottom of your email adds power and increases sales? You can actually get people to read a PS and pay attention to this even more than they paid attention to anything else they just read.

PPSS- I think it is probably true for those of us who are old enough to remember receiving letters in the MAIL from our friends and pen pals (mommy, what's a pen pal?) and we loved reading them so much and enjoyed the PS because it was usually something person and important.

PPPSSS- I am pretty sure that's what it is. I bet the young uns who have never experienced getting a letter from a friend are not influenced by the PS. What do you think?

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